more things i've come to realize...

*that it's okay to have fun a room of watching eyes..and not care*
*learning my body is fun..fascinating..and important..
*if i don't love myself/body first than how can i really expect for a man to love me/my body in return in the way that i deserve
*spicy food IS good! (not too spicy though)
*it's okay to dance to the beat of a different drum..going out of your comfort zone is good and necessary
*for every man/woman that doesn't love you back, there are millions out there that will.
*God provides for you without you even knowing sometimes ( as evidenced by my current bank account :)
*good friends are few
*i'm running out of clean and clear facewash
*it's time to wear my hair down (and wash it)
*i'm not looking for the perfect man, because he doesn't exist.
*being tired is a state of mind
*apparently its "coke and rum" and not "rum and coke"....haaa..go figure

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